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Dating - Not Asking For Immediate Results Is Better
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Today,
most of the daters want immediate results after a date. They want to
meet their dream date immediately. They want to fall in love
immediately. They want to like each other immediately. There is hurry
in dating. There is a demand that we must get good date immediately.
This is like interviewing candidates for a position in your
organization. You wish to get the best candidate as the first candidate
and get frustrated if you don't get one after interviewing many. That
frustration either makes you drop the idea of searching or you try to
fit at least one candidate in the slot. But that will fail with
disastrous results.
Are you
doing something
similar in dating? Do you not accept disappointments easily? Do you
want your candy immediately like a child? That can lead to
complications. You have to define your requirements and if you find
that your date and you don't match, you have to drop him/her. You don't
have to create excuses and fit him/her with you. That may lead to
long-term pain.
Let us be
sure. You are
looking for a life partner. You have only one life and you must try and
get the best partner you can to have happiness and satisfaction. Give
dating enough time. Date few people before you decide about one. Make
sure that your head is ruling you and not heart. Don't ask for
immediate results. That can be painful over time.
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