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Dating - What Do Men & Women Find
Irresistible in Each Other?
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Women
say they want to find a ‘good man’ they can love.
This is
true to some degree. Women ‘Love’ as the most
significant
need they want fulfilled in a man. However reality is different from
our beliefs. Love is wonderful but women seem to be attracted to other
characteristics and traits long before love develops. Basically what
women want in the new millennium has not changed much from what women
wanted millions of years ago. So, what is it that attracts a woman to a
man?
There is no question that women respect and look for a man who works
hard, more than just about any trait or characteristic. If a man is not
afraid of hard work, she knows she will be always cared for. A man who
is willing to work long hours is seen as tenacious and someone who is
reliable. Women know at some level that a man who works long hours is a
person who is able to bring stability, especially in terms of financial
reward. Women on average are attracted to men who work hard. Of all the
characteristics a man can have this is one of the most important that
women look for consciously or unconsciously.
Some other traits and characteristics that women look in a man:
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Women want commitment. They want to know that a man is interested in
their future.
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A man
with a strong sense of personal, social, and business mastery. Kindness
is perceived as an almost irresistible trait
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An interesting comment that we hear women saying is, they like a man
who is ‘good with kids’
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How
important is money? Almost all women surveyed in study after study
indicates they want to be with a man who makes more money. Women thrive
and enjoy life when they experience security and stability.
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And last but not the least, a man who cares her and her kids.
- What
do men find irresistible in women?
What is it
that draws a
man to a woman? There is little that a woman possesses that initially
entices a man beyond her physical attractiveness. This does not mean
that if a woman is not physically attractive that she has no
opportunity to find happiness. It does mean that physical
attractiveness is far and away the number one trait that men look for
in women.
Men are
driven in large
part by their desire to have sex. This surprises no one. Napoleon Hill,
history’s greatest success philosopher spelled out
year’s
ago that the most successful men in history have had enormous sex
desires. However, men who pursue only their sex drives rarely become
successful. A significant element in the success of any man is being
able to channel that sexual energy into their work.
How does we
know what physical attractiveness means to a man?
Men think
differently
than women do. Consider this amazing fact. In mathematical terms men
have evolved to find a woman waist to hip ratio is about .7 as most
attractive to them. In other words, divide the waist measurement by the
hip measurement and the resulting number is between .6 and .8. A man
will almost certainly find that woman instantly attractive. This is the
bottom half of the hourglass figures.
A
man does not
need a measuring tape to know that he is attracted someone however. He
simply has a certain shape that he is designed to look for and this is
part of that shape. (Women do have a filter for a man’s
physical
appearance. Women tend to unconsciously filter out men whose waist is
larger than their hips). Having said that, however, physical
attractiveness is not the sole criteria to a woman being attracted to a
man.
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