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Does Your Sexual Past Bother your Boyfriend?
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If
you are woirried about your boyfriend thinking about
about
another guy having been with you (whether we're talking about sex or
just hooking up). Envisioning some other guy getting down with their
girl friends can literally drive many a men crazy.
Have
you had a
checkered sexual history that's filled with lots of experience? If so,
your boyfriend might have trouble dealing with this. But this is
something that he must accept.
Don't
you dare
let someone else throw your past in your face or hold it against you.
If it's ancient history (or only a few months ago), let it stay there,
and move on.
He
must accept
you for all that you areIf he's chosen to be with you...he needs to
accept you for all that you are. And that means everything.
It
doesn't mean he has to like your sexual history, of course, but it
means he can't hold it against you. It's completely unfair for him to
want to date you and then start knit-picking about details from your
past.
If
he's
constantly bringing up your past tell him flat out that he's going to
have to accept everything about you if he wants to date you. Let him
know he has two choices:
a)
You two break up
b)
You two stay together...but he can never mention your sexual past ever
again. Never. Not even when you two are fighting.
Learn
from your
mistakes and move on. The few moments of pleasure that come
from
sex and hooking up can have a permanent effect on you reputation and
self-esteem. You will be doing the right thing if you just chose
to change your "free loving" ways, and that's what
matters
most. On the other hand, if you’ve only had a few
hookup
and your man is making a major issue about it, you might want to
rethink whether you really need to date such a puritanical person.
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