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How to Flirt Effectively For Dating Success
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Men
and women flirt differently, for different reasons and expect different
outcomes to the flirting. However, if you put aside that outcome and
flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different
opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that
doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good
friend
and who knows who she might introduce you to. Keep your options open.
After you
have exchanged
glances and smiles across a room and you are fairly confident that SHE
thinks that she might like to get to know you better, send a drink to
her. But remember that ALL you are buying is a drink. Don’t
expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send
someone a drink, watch when she receives it and smile, then look away
– look back again later to show your interest.
If you find
yourself
invited to her table, keep your mind on the conversation and not on
getting a date with her. Most women want to know what kind of person
they are going out with long before they actually go out with them.
Make an effort to get to know her and give her the opportunity to get
to know you before diving in for a date.
Do not ever
approach two
women in the same group. No woman wants to feel like second best.
Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look
like a loser and the women may think you are desperate and looking for
any port in a storm. Even if you are, don’t show it.
When you
compliment a
woman make certain that it is a genuine compliment. There’s
nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines.
Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment
them genuinely.
Do not ever
put your
hands on a woman uninvited. Some women have no objection to
‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by
it.
Respect the person until you have had the opportunity to know more
about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be
confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT
touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving
closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the
threat.
Respect
yourself at all
times. Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable.
Don't hover or grovel or act desperate. Think of yourself as special
and know what you deserve the very best.
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